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Humility

 

HumilityThe story is told of two brothers who grew up on a farm. One went away to college, earned a law degree, and became a partner in a prominent law firm in the state capital. The other brother stayed on the family farm. One day the lawyer came and visited his brother, the farmer. He asked, “Why don’t you go out and make a name for yourself and hold you head up high in the world like me?” The brother pointed and said, “See that field of wheat over there? Look closely. Only the empty heads stand up. Those that are well filled always bow low.”

        Said differently, “The branch that bears the most fruit is bent the lowest to the ground.

 

HumilityHumility is like a slippery watermelon seed. Once you get it under your finger and you think you have it, it slips away from your grasp.

 

Humility”When a certain rhetorician was asked what was the chief rule of eloquence he replied. ‘Delivery.’ What was the second rule, ‘Delivery.’ What was the third rule, ‘Delivery.’ So if you ask me concerning the precepts of the Christian religion, first, second, third, and always I would answer: ‘Humility.’”—Augustine

 

HumilityAn ardent music lover unexpectedly met the great Johannes Brahms. On recognizing the composer the man asked: “Master, would you please write here a small portion of a masterpiece and sign it so I can have a precious memory of this fortunate encounter?”

        Brahms took the pencil and paper, scribbled the initial bars of The Blue Danube by Johann Strauss and signed: “Unfortunately not by me, Johannes Brahms.”

 

HumilityThere is an old ditty that goes: “It needs more skill than I can tell / To play the second fiddle well.”

        In a similar vein, Leonard Bernstein was once asked which instrument was the most difficult to play. He thought for a moment and then replied, “The second fiddle. I can get plenty of first violinists, but to find someone who can play the second fiddle with enthusiasm-that’s a problem. And if we have no second fiddle, we have no harmony.”

 

HumilityDr. H. A. Ironside felt that he was not as humble as he thought he ought to be. Showing his concern, he asked an elder friend what he could do about it. His friend replied, “Make a sandwich board with the plan of salvation in Scripture on it and wear it, then walk through the business and shopping area of downtown Chicago for a whole day.”

        Ironside followed his friend’s advice. Upon completion of this humiliating experience, he returned to his apartment. As he took off the sandwich board, he caught himself thinking, “There’s not another person in Chicago that would be willing to do a thing like that.”

 

HumilityA well-known incident in the life of Robert E. Lee occurred while that southern gentleman was riding on a train to Richmond. The general was seated at the rear, and all the other places were filled with officers and soldiers. An elderly woman, poorly dressed, entered the coach at one of the stations. Having no seat offered to her, she trudged down the aisle to the back of the car. Immediately, Lee stood up and gave her his place. One man after another then arose to give the general his seat. “No, gentlemen,” he said, “if there is none for this lady, there can be none for me!”

        Being a Christian, General Lee knew that good manners and humility demand consideration for people in all walks of life, not merely for those of high social ranking like himself.

 

HumilityWe have plenty of people nowadays who could not kill a mouse without publishing it in the Gospel Gazette. Samson killed a lion and said nothing about it: the Holy Spirit finds modesty so rare that He takes care to record it. Say much of what the Lord has done for you, but say little of what you have done for the Lord. Do not utter a self-glorifying sentence! –C. H. Spurgeon

 

HumilityCorrie ten Boom was once asked if it was difficult for her to remain humble. Her reply was simple. “When Jesus rode into Jerusalem on Palm Sunday on the back of a donkey, and everyone was waving palm branches and throwing garments on the road, and singing praises, do you think that for one moment it ever entered the head of that donkey that any of that was for him?”

        She continued, “If I can be the donkey on which Jesus Christ rides in His glory, I give him all the praise and all the honor.”

 

Definition of HumilityAndrew Murray gave a near-perfect definition of humility:

        “Humility is perfect quietness of heart. It is to expect nothing, to wonder at nothing that is done to me, to feel nothing done against me. It is to be rest when nobody praises me, and when I am blamed or despised. It is to have a blessed home in the Lord, where I can go in and shut the door, and kneel to my Father in secret, and am at peace as in a deep sea of calmness, when all around and above is trouble.

        The humble person is not one who thinks meanly of himself, he simply does not think of himself at all.”

 

Knowledge and Humility”Never seem more learned than the people you are with. Wear your learning like a pocketwatch and keep it hidden. Do not pull it out to count the hours, but give the time when you are asked.”—Lord Chesterfield, Letters to His Son

 

Test of Humility”The true way to be humble is not to stoop until you are smaller than yourself, but to stand at your real height against some higher nature that will show you what the real smallness of your greatness is.”—Phillips Brooks

 

Test of HumilityThe Navigators are well known for their emphasis on having a servant attitude. A businessman once asked Lorne Sanny, president of the Navigators, how he could know when he had a servant attitude. The reply: “By how you act when you are treated like one.”

 

PrideA life that is wrapped up in itself makes a very small package.

 

PridePride is like a beard. It just keeps growing. The solution? Shave it every day.

 

PrideA minister, a Boy Scout, and a computer expert were the only passengers on a small plane. The pilot came back to the cabin and said that the plane was going down but there were only three parachutes and four people. The pilot added, “I should have one of the parachutes because I have a wife and three small children.” So he took one and jumped.

        The computer whiz said, “I should have one of the parachutes because I am the smartest man in the world and everyone needs me.” So he took one and jumped.

       The minister turned to the Boy Scout and with a sad smile said, “You are young and I have lived a rich life, so you take the remaining parachute, and I’ll go down with plane.”

        The boy Scout said, “Relax, Reverend, the smartest man in the world just picked up my knapsack and jumped out!”

 

PrideMany Christians are like the woodpecker who was pecking on the trunk of a dead tree. Suddenly lightning struck the tree and splintered it. The woodpecker flew away unharmed. Looking back to where the dead tree had stood, the proud bird exclaimed, “Look what I did!”

 

PridePride is the only disease known to man that makes everyone sick except the one who has it.

 

PrideA conceited person is someone who does a crossword puzzle with a ballpoint pen.

 

PrideAn article titled “The Art of being a big Shot” was written by a very prominent Christian businessman named Howard Butt. Among many other insightful things he said were these words:

        “It is my pride that makes me independent of God. It’s appealing to me to feel that I am the master of my fate, that I run my own life, call my own shots, go it alone. But that feeling is my basic dishonesty. I can’t go it alone. I have to get help from other people, and I can’t ultimately rely on myself. I’m dependent on God for my next breath. It is dishonest of me to pretend that I’m anything but a man-small, weak, and limited. So, living independent of God is self-delusion. It is not just a matter of pride being an unfortunate little trait and humility being an attractive little virtue; it’s my inner psychological integrity that’s at stake. When I am conceited, I am lying to myself about what I am. I am pretending to be God, and not man. My pride is the idolatrous worship of myself. And that is the national religion of Hell! (from an undocumented source.)

 

PrideAlbert Einstein once said, regarding pride of accomplishment: “The only way to escape the personal corruption of praise is to go on working. One is tempted to stop and listen to it. The only thing is to turn away and go on working. Work. There is nothing else.”

 

PrideA rich man once invited many honored guests for a feast. His own chair, richly decorated, was placed at one end of the long table. While he was away, each guest seated himself according to his own esteem of his position in sight of the master. When time came and all were seated, the master moved his chair to the other end of the table!

 

PrideMany Christians have wrongly concluded that sexual sins are the worst kind of sin. But that is not true. Sexual sins are not the worst kind of sins. C.S. Lewis has caught this fact very accurately. In a paragraph from his book Mere Christianity (New York: Macmillan, 1986), Lewis says:

        “If anyone thinks that Christians regard unchastity as the supreme vice, he is quite wrong. The sins of the flesh are bad, but they are the least of putting other people in the wrong, of bossing and patronizing and spoiling sport, and backbiting; the pleasures of power, of hated. For there are two things inside me competing with the human self which I must try to become; they are the animal self, and the diabolical self; and the diabolical self is the worst of the two. That is why a cold, self-righteous prig, who goes regularly to church may be far nearer to hell than a prostitute. But, of course, it’s better to be neither.”

 

PrideAccording to Life magazine, Muhammed Ali spoke of himself before his 1971 fight with Joe Frazier thus:

        “There seems to some confusion. We’re gonna clear this confusion up on March 8. We’re gonna decide once and for all who is king! There’s not a man alive who can whup me. (He jabs the air half a dozen blinding lefts.)

        I’m too smart. (He taps his head.)

        I’m too pretty. (He lifts his head high in profile, turning as a bust on a pedestal.)

        I AM the greatest. I AM the king! I should be a postage stamp-that’s the only way I could get licked!”

        P.S. Ali lost to Frazier!

 

PrideWhen the nineteenth-century American evangelist Asahel Nettleton was asked what he considered the best safeguard against spiritual pride, he replied: “I know of nothing better than to keep my eye on my great sinfulness.”

 

PrideIn Charles Colson’s book Born Again, which details his experiences related to Watergate, Colson shares one of President Nixon’s problems-he could never admit he was wrong in anything. In fact, Colson says, even when Nixon obviously had a cold-nose running, face red, sneezing, all the symptoms-he would never admit it.

 

PrideWhen circus acrobat Philippe Petit was rehearsing in Bayfront Auditorium in St. Petersburg, Florida, he fell about thirty feet to a concrete floor. According to a witness, Petit rolled over on his stomach, began pounding the floor with his fists, and cried, “I can’t believe it! I can’t believe it! I don’t ever fall!”

 

PrideThe story is told of a laborer who was a mature Christian and gave a solid testimony before all who knew him. His boss came to him one day and said, “You know, whatever you’ve got, I want. You have such peace and joy and contentment. How can I get this?”

        The laborer said, “Go to your home, put on your best suit, come down here, and work in the mud with the rest of us-and you can have it.”

        “What are you talking about? I could never do that. I’m the boss, you’re the worker. I can’t do that. That’s beneath my dignity.” The boss came back a couple of months later and said, “I ask you again, what is it that you have and how can I get it?”

        “I told you, go put on your best suit, come down and work in the mud with us, and you can have it.” Again the boss became furious and walked off.

        Finally, in desperation he came back to the laborer and said, “I don’t care what it takes! I’ll do anything.” The laborer said, “Will you put on your best suit and comedown and work in the mud?” The boss agreed that he would do even that. Then the laborer said, “You don’t have to.”

        Do you see the point? The laborer knew what was standing between the boss and Christ-pride and self.

 

Spiritual PrideThere was a godly Christian woman who startled her friends by saying, “There isn’t a sin of which I am not capable. I could be a prostitute; I could murder, I could embezzle.”

        Most of her friends were not impressed with her frankness. Instead they thought that she was displaying a false humility. Then she added, “You don’t really believe what I just said. I mean it-because I realize that any particular sin that crops up in someone else’s life expresses itself in me, but in different ways. Until I accept that, I am self-righteous, proud, and arrogant.”